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Bonnie McFarlane

Bonnie McFarlane

Withering deadpan that treats marriage like a hostage situation.

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Photo: Lisa Gansky from New York, NY, USA / CC-BY-SA-2.0

2 specials · 1997–2005

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Bonnie McFarlane performs with the posture of someone trapped in a conversation at the DMV. She does not pace, yell, or ask how the room is doing. She stands perfectly still and delivers cynical punchlines with complete flatness. When a crowd groans at a particularly dark turn, she doesn’t smile to ease the tension. She just waits for them to finish making noise so she can say the next joke.

Specials

On stage

In the New York comedy ecosystem, she is a mainstay, coming up in the Tough Crowd era. Other comics watch her for her unadorned joke writing and her refusal to try to make an audience like her. She leans into the friction of the industry, notably directing the documentary Women Aren’t Funny to troll the endless debate about gender in standup.

Her material centers on her domestic life, particularly her marriage to fellow comedian Rich Vos. But this is not standard spouse-complaint comedy. McFarlane treats her marriage, her motherhood, and her own flaws with absolute detachment. She will deliver a ruthless insult about her husband with the same mild annoyance you might use to describe a persistent draft in an old house. Her occasional crowd work functions the same way. She insults people so quietly and casually that it takes the room a beat to realize what just happened.

Originally from a farm in northern Alberta, that bleak isolation seems permanently baked into her worldview. Fans who spent years listening to her trade jabs with Vos on their podcast already know the dynamic, but on stage, she distills that constant bickering into cold, hard jokes.

Turning points

  1. First Comic Eliminated on Last Comic Standing

    McFarlane appeared on season two of NBC's reality competition Last Comic Standing, where she was the first comedian voted off.

  2. Release of Women Aren't Funny Documentary

    McFarlane wrote and directed the comedy documentary Women Aren't Funny, exploring industry stereotypes regarding female stand-ups.

  3. Publication of Memoir You're Better Than Me

    Published by Anthony Bourdain, the memoir chronicles McFarlane's unusual upbringing in rural Alberta and her career trajectory in comedy.

At a glance

Born
, Cold Lake, Alberta, Canada
Breakout
Last Comic Standing
Topics
Elsewhere
Wikipedia

Fans also like

  • Rich Vos

    Her husband and longtime comedic foil, sharing decades of stage collaboration and co-hosting the joint relationship podcast My Wife Hates Me.

  • Colin Quinn

    A frequent peer in the New York club circuit who regularly featured McFarlane on Tough Crowd with Colin Quinn and appeared on her podcast.

Podcasts

  • My Wife Hates Me (For Worse) · co-host

    Married comedians Rich Vos and Bonnie McFarlane offer a humorous, candid, and bickering window into their marriage, life, and the comedy industry.

    Apple Podcasts · YouTube

Also on screen

Last Comic Standing Contestant (Season 2)
NickMom Night Out Host
Women Aren't Funny Self / Host
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Tough Crowd with Colin Quinn Panelist
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Red Eye w/Greg Gutfeld Panelist

A clip to start with

Bonnie McFarlane Stand-Up

5 min · 622K views · on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon