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Laurie Kilmartin

Laurie Kilmartin

A weary late-night writer turning catastrophic life events into pristine jokes.

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Photo: Lisa Gansky from New York, NY, USA / CC-BY-SA-2.0

3 specials · 2001–2024

Start with 45 Jokes About My Dead Dad, the breakout (2016 · 61 min · Seeso)

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Laurie Kilmartin stands behind the mic and goes straight to work. She delivers jokes with a weary, practiced efficiency, using the clipped cadence of a late-night monologue writer. There are no sprawling anecdotes or theatrical act-outs. She sets up a premise, usually something bleak about aging, single motherhood, or the physical deterioration of her parents, and hits the punchline, then immediately moves to the next setup. She looks mildly irritated by the world, treating catastrophic life events like bureaucratic annoyances.

Specials

On stage

Through her long-running podcast with Jackie Kashian, she acts as a kind of union rep for the working road comic. She talks plainly about the unglamorous realities of club gigs and the daily maintenance of a career. On stage, she strips joke writing down to its studs. Peers watch her to see how a professional builds a set without wasting a single syllable.

When she talks about losing her parents, she bypasses sentiment completely, choosing instead to locate the pettiest, most selfish angles of the grieving process. She builds tension simply by stating the most terrible thought in the room in an ordinary speaking voice. Because the jokes arrive so densely, audiences sometimes scramble to keep up, but she rarely pauses to let them catch their breath.

Kilmartin started in the Bay Area in the late eighties and spent eleven years writing for Conan. That daily late-night grind is visible in her rhythm. She does not wait for applause breaks. She just reloads.

Turning points

  1. Live-Tweeting Her Father's Hospice Journey

    Kilmartin used Twitter as an open mic to post real-time gallows humor during her father's 10 days in hospice care, generating widespread attention and establishing the material for her landmark debut special.

  2. Release of 45 Jokes About My Dead Dad

    After nearly three decades in stand-up, Kilmartin released her first hour special on Seeso to widespread critical acclaim, earning spots on year-end best-of lists from Vulture, Paste, and Splitsider.

At a glance

Born
, San Jose, California
On stage
since 1987
Style
dark comedy, one liner, observational, satire
Breakout
45 Jokes About My Dead Dad
Topics
Elsewhere
Website, Wikipedia

Fans also like

  • Jackie Kashian

    As Kilmartin's longtime co-host on The Jackie and Laurie Show, Kashian shares a 1980s stand-up lineage, veteran road comic perspective, and deep comedic chemistry.

    Photo: Jackie Kashian / CC-BY-SA-4.0

Podcasts

  • The Jackie and Laurie Show · co-host

    Two veteran comedy headliners talk about women and comedy, road stories, late-night writing, and the stand-up industry without guests.

    Apple Podcasts · YouTube

Also on screen

Gutsy Guest on the 'Comedy' episode of Hillary Clinton's Apple TV docuseries

A clip to start with

Laurie Kilmartin On What It's Like To Date As A Single Parent | CONAN on TBS

6 min · 241K views · on Team Coco