On and On and On
HBO Max · 2024 · 61 min
Rose Matafeo turns her phone’s Notes app into a stand-up set.
Rose Matafeo begins her first solo stand-up special in six years with a choreographed dance routine, claiming she is terrible at endings and wanted to front-load the memorable stuff. The rest of the hour is built around a sprawling, 16,000-word entry in her phone’s Notes app. It is a frantic, hyper-verbal catalog of her modern neuroses, failed relationships, and anxieties about aging, delivered at a breathless clip.
Filmed at London’s Britten Theatre and released on Max in late 2024, the special arrived at a high point in Matafeo’s career, following the success of her sitcom Starstruck. She taped the set while suffering from laryngitis and heavily medicated on steroids, yet she maintains a high-energy pace throughout. She spends the hour contrasting her lonely twenties spent dating posh British men with the indignity of getting dumped in her thirties. Notable routines include a polarizing joke that tests the limits of her crowd’s feminism, her frustration with online relationship coaches, and the realization that she has not grown up nearly as much as her parents had at her age.
The set list
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The 16,000-word Notes app document
Presenting 30 pages of printed-out notes in size-10 font described as an unhinged manifesto containing everything from grocery lists to sad poems and joke ideas
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Dating and being dumped in your 20s vs. your 30s
Contrasting the malleable identity of one's 20s where you mold yourself to a partner versus being rejected in your 30s for your set-in-stone actual self
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Googling in incognito mode
Admitting to searching incognito whether someone can get broken up with for 'being too cool'
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Tracking periods and male PE teachers
Discussing tracking her period and the absurdity that a male phys ed teacher was the first to explain it to her
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Feeling like a spinster and physical pratfalls
Taking a tumble to the floor during a routine about feeling like a spinster, comparing herself to Shelley Winters
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People who ostentatiously journal in notebooks
Mocking people who write in paper notebooks on the beach while others are taking photos for disinterested men
How it plays
- Tone
- Self-deprecating, candid, energetic, and emotionally intelligent
- On stage
- Insightful, self-deprecating, and charming with freewheeling, chaotic energy and megawatt charm; roasts her own outfit and self-diagnoses insecurities
- Pace
- Blazingly fast delivery, racing through material with irrepressible and chaotic momentum, sometimes yelling and dancing energetically onstage
- About
- breakups and singledom in 30s vs. 20s, the iPhone Notes app, aging and adulthood, whether to have children, online relationship coaches and podcasts, self-care culture
What the critics said
Praised for its lightning-fast delivery, relatable comedic honesty, and sharp self-deprecation, with critics noting her command of the stage even while processing messiness and insecurities
In the room: Supportive and highly engaged with loud laughter and howling applause
Backstory
Filmed while Matafeo had laryngitis and was taking steroids; the material was prompted by endings in her life, including turning 30, breakups, the end of Starstruck, and bereavement, built around an ongoing 16,000-word phone note
Details
- Released
- Taped
- Britten Theatre, London
- Runtime
- 61 min
- Where
- HBO Max
- Director
- Barbara Wiltshire
- Honors
- Nominated for Best Show / Most Outstanding Show at the Melbourne International Comedy Festival (2024)
- Topics
- Before
- Horndog (2021)
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