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Tom Papa

Netflix · 2024 · 62 min

Tom Papa finds domestic bliss in a suddenly empty house.

Instead of crying over his youngest daughter leaving for college, Tom Papa is privately thrilled to have a quiet house again. Free from the endless obligations of raising children, his mind turns to the small, unimpeded pleasures of aging: hot showers, solo late-night 7-Eleven runs, and the quiet satisfaction of microdosing while watching cartoons alone.

Filmed at the Warner Theatre in Washington, D.C., and directed by Troy Miller, this 2024 Netflix release finds the comedian leaning into his signature suburban-dad persona with a relaxed, low-stakes warmth. After three decades in stand-up — a career that began as an opener for Jerry Seinfeld — Papa remains committed to keeping things clean. He famously uses exactly two mild swear words during the entire hour, focusing instead on the gentle absurdities of a long marriage, the ridiculousness of owning an ugly pug, and the sudden realization that nobody is waiting for him to come home anymore.

The hour is a celebration of low energy, trading high-octane social commentary for observations on bread baking, long-term marriage, and the sweet relief of a silent living room.

The set list

7 bits
  1. Pretending to be sad about the kids leaving home

    Observes the unspoken difficulty of feigning sadness when his daughters move out, admitting he might be happier than ever, micro-dosing and watching Rick and Morty alone.

  2. DNA tests

    How home DNA testing uncovers hidden family secrets while producing fans claiming to be newfound cousins.

  3. Skepticism of therapy and modern focus culture

    Contrasts younger comics' embrace of therapy with his own generation, noting teachers were so harsh that kids didn't need Adderall, and muses that constant happiness would kill comedy.

  4. Admitting to shoplifting

    Reveals his own flaws by confessing to petty theft and encouraging people to try it because it's fun.

  5. Public hygiene and airport behavior

    Laments people exposing bare feet and general bodily grossness in public spaces and airports, balanced by mocking his own body.

  6. Mona Lisa's expression

    Contrasts the myth of constant bliss by noting her smile looks like the expression given to someone squeezing onto an elevator at the last second.

  7. Political opinions of friends and neighbors

    Jokes about how not knowing your neighbors' political leanings is essential if you want to keep any friends.

How it plays

Tone
Lighthearted, calming, reassuring, self-effacing, relatively clean, witty, with occasional biting or dark edges.
On stage
A sensible optimist, weary wiseacre in a suit, likable, amiable with a biting sting and mordant wit, projecting the 'comedy of reassurance' and middle-aged dad comedy.
Pace
Calm, unhurried, sometimes speaks in a near-croon, uses a distinct laugh to punctuate punchlines, repeats lines with varied inflection, and takes leisurely pauses.
About
empty nest life, aging and middle age, parenthood, family dynamics, marriage and relationships, social media and societal pressures to be happy

What the critics said

Praised as a primer on stand-up craft and an enjoyable, calming escapist hour that keeps viewers grounded, though noted by some critics as slightly below the peak quality of his prior specials.

In the room: Appreciative and relaxed room reacting warmly to clean, relatable observational humor on aging and family life.

Summed up from reviews, articles and listings. Sources: rottentomatoes.com, deadline.com, comedydynamics.com, decider.com, nytimes.com, bostonglobe.com, latimes.com, imdb.com, en.wikipedia.org.

Backstory

Papa and his wife have become empty nesters after raising two daughters who reached adulthood and moved out; releasing amidst anxious times and election news.

Details

Released
Taped
Warner Theatre, Washington
Runtime
62 min
Where
Netflix
Director
Troy Miller
Topics
Before
What A Day! (2022)

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